In my leadership journey, I’ve come to deeply value people who are genuinely interested in their current roles. Passion often drives performance more than skill alone. I recently faced a situation that reminded me of this truth—one that wasn’t easy, but necessary.
One of our key project members, originally assigned from another region, had been highly praised by our client. His knowledge perfectly matched the project's needs, and there was no doubt in my mind that he could stay until the very end. I was even preparing to recommend him for a higher position.
However, after working with him for a couple of months, I started to notice subtle changes. Although his performance remained stable, something felt off. It was as if he was holding back—he wasn’t fully engaged or performing to the best of his abilities. There was a quiet discomfort in his attitude, a lack of focus that I couldn't ignore.
So, I decided to address it directly in a one-on-one meeting. I told him frankly, "You always seem one step ahead of the team, and at times, it feels like you're detached from us." He denied it, but when I asked if he truly wanted to stay, his answer was telling: “It depends on you. If needed, I can stay.” He eventually admitted that his true desire was to return to his home country.
I explained my core belief—when there's a gap between one’s desires and their assigned role, performance inevitably suffers. I suggested that he demobilize from the project and pursue a path more aligned with his goals. As a professional, he initially resisted. “I can still fulfill the role,” he insisted. But I stood firm. I told him that I respected his capabilities deeply, and for that very reason, I believed he deserved a position where he could thrive with both mind and motivation aligned.
He was surprised—maybe even shaken—by my decision. Yet, he accepted it. Later, he repeatedly confirmed the demobilization schedule and asked me not to change my mind. He confided in others that the decision wasn’t in line with his personal wishes. But I explained once again: career alignment matters more than short-term assignments. When there's a mismatch between role and desire, the result is rarely productive—for the individual or the team.
I reflected on a similar experience I had years ago while working for an EPC contractor. I was assigned to a project I had no passion for. Though I fulfilled my duties, I was unmotivated, uninspired, and far from innovative. It taught me that performance without purpose is a hollow shell. When passion and role align, that’s when people shine.
As I revisit that memory, I’m confident in my decision. I believe that in his home country, doing what he truly wants, he will be more engaged, more innovative, and much more fulfilled.
That is the kind of professional I want to support.

