Introduction: Embracing Change in Preferences and Relationships
Good day to all my readers! Today, I'm excited to delve into an intriguing aspect of our human nature: our propensity for unexpected changes in thoughts and preferences. Interestingly, while these shifts are common in various facets of our lives, they seem less so in the realm of human relationships. Through my recent hobby, which I took up in 2021—motorcycle riding—I've gleaned numerous insights, not just about the activity itself but also valuable lessons applicable to business and life.
The Evolution of a Riding Passion
In this blog post, I want to focus on how situations, preferences, and objectives evolve over time. As some of you might know, I proudly own a Harley Davidson Fat Boy, an iconic model made famous by its appearance in Terminator 2 with Arnold Schwarzenegger at the helm. This bike marks the third in my journey as a motorcycle enthusiast, following a CBR 650 and a HD Lowrider.
A Crossroad of Decision
However, I find myself at a crossroads, contemplating a switch from my beloved Fat Boy. This decision stems from a realization that it no longer aligns with my current situation, preferences, and objectives. While I initially avoided diving into the specifics of why I chose motorcycle riding, it's clear through my experience that the Fat Boy, despite its allure and comfort, falls short in delivering the exhilarating experience I seek on winding roads—a pastime I cherish.
Seeking a New Companion
The Fat Boy, designed for the expansive highways of the US, offers an unmatched ride for long stretches, perfectly suited for the American landscape but not for Japan's narrow, twisting roads. Despite the pride and comfort it offers, I've come to miss the sheer joy of navigating bends and turns, leading to my decision to part ways with it. This change of heart is not due to the bike itself, which remains unchanged, but rather my evolving preferences and insights gained from direct experience and other sources.
A Lesson in Flexibility and Growth
Before making this decision, I embarked on trial rides with several motorcycles, including Ducati, BMW, and Honda. These experiences, unlike any I had before, provided me with a clearer understanding of what I truly sought in a motorcycle, guiding me towards the decision to seek a new companion for my adventures—one that's lighter and more suited to winding roads without being overly sporty, a lesson learned from the discomfort experienced with the CBR650.
Conclusion: Reflecting on Change and Relationships
This journey underscores a broader realization: our thoughts and desires are in constant flux. It's entirely possible to own a single piece of hardware for a long period, much longer than the tenure of many of our elders. But how does this apply to human relations? The dynamics of change, transformation, and adjustment are complex and mutual in relationships, making simple applicability challenging. Marriage, for instance, relies on continuous learning and growth from both partners. It's not a one-sided endeavor but a shared journey of evolution. This understanding highlights the necessity of embracing change, both in the material and relational realms.
Epilogue: A Glimpse into the Future
As I bid farewell to my Fat Boy, the search for a new partner is on. I invite you to stay tuned for future blogs where I'll share the next chapter in my motorcycle journey. Who knows which bike will capture my heart next? The adventure continues, and I can't wait to take you along for the ride.
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